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Executive Functioning Skills for High School Teens: A Parent's Guide

Written by Ana Boskovic | Tue, Aug 25, 2026

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Executive functioning skills are brain-based abilities–including working memory, task initiation, self-regulation, and cognitive flexibility–that dictate how a person handles information and carries out everyday tasks. Executive dysfunction can pose real challenges at every stage of a student’s path, particularly in high school, the college admissions process, college itself, and beyond, since each stage demands greater mastery of these skills. ADHD is closely linked to executive dysfunction, but EF struggles can occur on their own. The good news is executive dysfunction is not a permanent condition. It can be addressed at any age with the right strategies and support. Collegewise’s Tandem program helps students with ADHD and executive functioning challenges build lasting skills alongside a strong college application. 

Have you noticed your high schooler forgets assignments, procrastinates on projects, or can’t seem to stay organized no matter how many reminders you give? Sometimes the problem isn’t motivation, intelligence, or disobedience–it’s executive functioning.

Executive functioning (EF) is one of the most consequential factors in whether a student thrives in high school, gets into the right-fit college, and actually succeeds once they’re there. This guide will cover:

  • What executive functioning skills are
  • How they show up differently in teens at the high school and college level
  • The connection between ADHD and executive functioning
  • Strategies and support programs (including Collegewise’s Tandem) designed to help your teen overcome any challenges they face

What are Executive Functioning Skills?

Executive functioning skills are the cognitive processes that allow us to perform everyday tasks such as planning, organization, emotional regulation, reasoning, attention, problem-solving, and time management. Executive function isn’t a single skill, but rather a collection of related capabilities that work together to achieve a specific goal. Below is a more detailed list of EF skills:

  • Self-restraint: The ability to control impulses and delay gratification.
  • Working memory: Holding information in mind for task completion and problem solving.
  • Emotion control: Managing and regulating emotional responses.
  • Focus: Maintaining attention and concentration on a task, even with distractions.
  • Task initiation: Starting tasks without procrastination.
  • Planning/prioritization: Developing a plan to achieve goals, including breaking down tasks and setting priorities.
  • Organization: Structuring materials and information clearly and logically.
  • Time management: Estimating how long tasks will take, setting deadlines, and managing time effectively.
  • Goal-directed persistence: Persevering with tasks that require sustained effort to achieve a goal.
  • Cognitive flexibility: Adapting to changing situations and finding alternative solutions when needed.
  • Observation: Paying attention to details and noticing patterns in the environment.
  • Stress tolerance: Managing and coping with stress and pressure.

No one is born with these skills, but everyone is born with the ability to build on them.

This is crucial when understanding how executive functions work. No one is born already knowing how to self-regulate or manage their time. These are skills we gradually learn and develop, from infancy to adulthood, to become better-functioning members of society.

Some executive functions emerge remarkably early. Working memory, basic goal-setting, and simple problem-solving all show up in early childhood. For example, a two-year-old who can complete a puzzle or remembers the route to their favorite park is already exercising executive functioning skills, in their earliest form.

From there, children keep having experiences–at home, school, in unstructured play, through trial and error–that nurture and refine these skills all the way through adulthood.

Why does this timeline matter so much for parents of teenagers? Because it reframes what’s actually happening when a high schooler struggles with executive functioning. In many cases, it isn’t a deficit or a character flaw; it’s simply that their executive functions are still under construction.

If you’ve noticed your teen facing challenges academically, emotionally, or socially because of this, know that there are concrete ways to support them.

Why Executive Functioning Skills Matter So Much in High School

As students move into higher grade levels, the demands placed on them intensify. They go from a relatively structured middle school environment to a more self-driven model. High school students are expected to juggle several classes, deadlines, extracurriculars, standardized tests, and part-time jobs, all with far less adult oversight than ever before. This is exactly when executive functioning gaps become visible in ways they weren’t previously.

Common signs that your teen may have executive functioning challenges include:

  • Completing assignments but forgetting to turn them in to their teacher.
  • Waiting until the night before an assignment is due to complete it.
  • Trouble managing their extracurricular activities, assignments, and studying.
  • A bedroom, locker, or backpack that may look disorganized.
  • Difficulty transitioning between subjects or tasks.
  • Trouble staying focused in class or dedicating time to study for tests.

EF challenges don’t stay confined to grades. They can affect a student’s emotional and social well-being too, not just their transcript. The academic piece, however, is well documented. Research consistently links stronger executive functioning skills to better academic performance, particularly in reading and mathematics.

A separate meta-analysis conducted by PACE found that EF skills not only correlate with better academic performance in the moment, they also predict future achievement. Meaning, EF skills built (or left unbuilt) today have a compounding effect on a student’s trajectory.

As students move through high school and toward college admissions, college, and eventually adulthood, having well-developed EF skills only becomes more important. Tasks get harder, demands grow, and the built-in structure keeps disappearing, requiring teens to tap into their EF skills more frequently.

How Executive Functioning Skills Lead to a Smoother College Admissions Process

Executive functioning doesn’t just affect a student’s high school classroom performance; it directly shapes how well they navigate the college admissions process.

Here are some of the ways executive functioning shows up in college admissions:

  • Organization across multiple portals, schools, essays, supplementals, and deadlines.
  • Task initiation on open-ended work such as writing a personal statement, researching colleges, or scheduling and attending campus visits.
  • Self-monitoring to track which schools require what, by when, and without missing requirements.
  • Emotional regulation to manage the anxiety and uncertainty that comes with the process.
  • Focus to prepare for and sit through standardized testing.
  • Working memory to keep track of important dates, communication with admissions representatives, or outstanding tasks.
  • Cognitive flexibility and emotional maturity to process college rejections and adjust any college plans.

Even strong students can be blindsided by the components that go into applying to college. A student with excellent grades and test scores can still struggle with the unstructured, self-directed nature of the application process.

EF challenges can also affect college admissions long before a student ever starts their application. A teen who hasn’t had the chance to build strong EF skills earlier in high school may already be carrying the consequences that lead to a weaker transcript. That gap can quietly narrow the list of schools realistically within reach, not because a student isn’t capable, but because they haven’t had the chance to develop the skills necessary to reach a certain level of achievement.

This is why building executive functioning skills early, rather than waiting for senior year, matters so much. It protects both the process and the journey toward it.

Why the Skills Gap Widens in College & Adulthood

Success in college depends heavily on a student’s ability to act on the EF skills they have developed up to that point. Where high school still offers some support, college expects students to demonstrate an entirely new level of independence, often while living away from home for the first time.

EF challenges can show up at any point in a person’s life, even for students who showed little or no struggle before. A student may navigate high school well, but only because they rely on parental check-ins, familiar routines, and a school schedule that quietly does a lot of the organizing for them. These same students can begin to struggle once they reach college and those guardrails and support systems disappear. This is exactly why a student’s ability to be admitted to college says very little about their ability to successfully transition, persist, and graduate once they’re there. Getting in is one thing; thriving once enrolled is an entirely different challenge that draws on EF skills.

Some parents may notice their teen needs more support back in high school, while for others, the gaps don’t become obvious until college. Either way, the response is the same: build the skills early and don’t wait for the environment to force it.

What Can Worsen Executive Functioning Skills?

Because executive functions are malleable and not fixed, it doesn’t just develop with age, it can also strengthen (or worsen) based on environment and daily habits. A research synthesis prepared for the U.S. Department of Education’s Institute of Education Sciences believes stress, poverty, and dysfunctional or chaotic environments tend to worsen executive function. The same report highlights that supportive caregiving, quality instruction, and targeted intervention can improve it.

Everyday lifestyle factors matter too, not just big-picture stressors. Physical activity, friendships, social media or video game usage, screen time, books, and fast food consumption are all factors that can contribute to stronger or worse executive function.

How Is ADHD and Executive Functioning Connected? A Parent’s Guide

ADHD (attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder) and executive functioning are deeply connected, but the relationship is not exclusive. A student who has ADHD typically also experiences executive functioning challenges, since impaired executive function is considered a core, defining feature of ADHD. But the reverse isn’t true: a student with executive functioning challenges may not have ADHD at all. Teenagers with anxiety, learning disabilities, chronic stress, or who are still developing executive functions can all produce similar day-to-day symptoms without an ADHD diagnosis.

It’s also worth noting clearly that ADHD is not considered a learning disability. ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects attention regulation and executive functioning, whereas learning disabilities refer to how the brain processes sensory information.

If you suspect that your teen’s executive functioning challenges may be closely related to ADHD or a learning disability, be sure to reach out to a qualified professional for an accurate diagnosis.

How Common is ADHD Among Teens?

According to a 2024 National Survey of Children’s Health and a 2022 research study on ADHD prevalence among U.S. children and adolescents:

  • Approximately 11.7% (7.1 million) of U.S. children ages 3-17 have a current ADHD diagnosis. This represents 1 in 9 children.
  • High schoolers (ages 12 to 17) carry the highest ADHD prevalence (17.5%) of any age band measured.
  • More than half (58.1%) of children diagnosed have moderate or severe ADHD.
  • 77.9% of children with ADHD have at least one co-occurring condition.

10 Ways to Improve Your Teen’s Executive Functioning Skills

EF skills can be built and strengthened with consistent practice, at any age. Here is what can help teens with executive functioning challenges:

1. Get a proper read on what’s actually going on.

Instead of diagnosing the problem yourself, ask a specialized professional to help identify what’s driving the struggle and whether your teen has ADHD, a learning disability, an executive functioning weakness, or a combination of the three. This matters because the right support looks different depending on the cause.

2. Build routines into your teen’s week, not just reminders.

Create a consistent, easy-to-follow schedule so the plan or action doesn’t just live in your teen’s memory. For example, carve out specific hours each week on the same days so your teen can study for a standardized test.

3. Break down task initiation into smaller steps.

Getting started is often the single hardest executive functioning hurdle, especially for open-ended work such as writing an essay or conducting college research. Try “let’s start with brainstorming the first paragraph” instead of “write your essay.” A smaller first move makes the task easier to complete.

4. Encourage autonomy with guiding questions.

Ask guiding questions–like “How do you feel about visiting a campus this summer?” or “What would make you feel excited about a college?”–this approach lets your teen handle the planning and execution.

5. Use external resources and tools.

Those with EF challenges may struggle to hold multi-step plans purely in working memory. Put the plan onto a visible system by using timers, planners, shared calendars, or checklists that make the planning process more manageable.

6. Build healthy habits.

A consistent bedtime, regular exercise, reading, and stress-relieving activities all support the brain systems executive function depends on. We know getting a teenager to read a novel during summer break is no easy task, but any progress toward protecting their physical and mental wellbeing is important.

7. Declutter (the space and the to-dos).

A cluttered backpack, desk, and bedroom adds friction to every single task. So does an overloaded, unprioritized to-do list. Help your teen clear out the physical space and mental load they’re carrying.

8. Listen to your teen and ask them where they need support.

EF challenges look different for every teen, and your teen likely has real insight into where they’re struggling and what might be most helpful for them.

9. Prioritize a nutrient-rich diet.

Nutrition plays a meaningful, often underestimated role in cognitive function, and skipping meals or a heavily processed diet can impact their attention and self-regulation.

10. Offer low-risk opportunities to practice.

Give your teen opportunities to practice building those EF muscles. Ask them to remind you about something later in the day or to reorganize a cluttered drawer. These aren’t make-or-break situations, but small wins like these build real confidence.

How Tandem by Collegewise Helps Teens with ADHD and Executive Functioning Challenges

Tandem by Collegewise is a college counseling program designed specifically for teens with ADHD and executive functioning challenges. The program’s dual-expert structure pairs a student with two dedicated professionals working in tandem (as the name suggests): a college counselor who guides the strategy and logistics of the college admissions process, and the executive function coach who works on the underlying planning, time management, and self-regulation skills that the process demands.

Through Tandem, students can assemble a strong college application and build the actual skills needed to manage the application independently and carry those same skills into college itself.

What Makes Tandem Different?

The stakes of the college process extend well beyond the acceptance letter itself. As this guide has laid out, there’s a growing need to nurture a student’s genuine college readiness, not just help them get admitted. And that’s the gap Tandem’s approach is built around.

With Tandem, families can expect:

  • Skills built alongside a finished college application.
  • A more manageable, structured college admissions process.
  • A dedicated project manager every step of the way.
  • A focus on genuine college fit that lowers the risk of a costly mismatch.

Tandem is available to students from the ninth grade to the first semester of college, providing support exactly during the transition that many students with ADHD and EF challenges may struggle with.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is executive dysfunction?

Executive dysfunction refers to a disruption in an individual’s ability to perform everyday tasks effectively. Executive dysfunction is caused by both genetic predispositions and environmental factors, with symptoms and severity ranging from person to person.

What are common signs of executive dysfunction?

Signs and symptoms look different for everyone, with some individuals displaying more signs of executive dysfunction than others. Common signs someone may have executive dysfunction include:

  • Time blindness
  • Forgetfulness
  • Difficulty initiating or completing tasks
  • Disorganization
  • Trouble self-regulating emotions
  • Poor focus

Can you fix executive dysfunction?

Yes, executive dysfunction is not a permanent condition. EF skills can be improved with consistent practice, structured environments, coaching, or treatment. Executive dysfunction can also be addressed at any age, although early intervention is better.

Does anxiety affect executive function?

Yes, anxiety can worsen executive functioning skills for two reasons:

  1. The body has a physical and neurological response to anxiety, which leaves less capacity for cognitive flexibility, working memory, or sustained focus.
  2. Anxiety can trigger self-doubt or magnify the perception of threats and danger that may lead individuals toward task avoidance, negative self-talk, or low self-esteem.

Does depression affect executive function?

Yes, depression is linked to executive functioning difficulties, particularly in initiating and completing tasks, decision-making, and attention. Research comparing students with depression, anxiety, and stress symptoms found that depressed students had greater disruption to shifting attention and cognitive flexibility than the other groups.

Does dyslexia affect executive function?

Yes, dyslexia and executive dysfunction are closely linked. Dyslexia’s core impact is on reading and language processing, but it may also affect organization, attention, and working memory. Dyslexia makes it harder for individuals to structure written work, complete tasks, and organize instruction.

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